How to befriend someone

How to befriend someone

By Kathryn Haueisen Friends don’t just magically appear. We make friends from among the strangers all around us. Since no two people are alike, no two people approach making friends the same way. Here are seven suggestions: Accept variations. Even Jesus, who we sing...

Conflict and boundaries

Conflict and boundaries

One of the first words that toddlers learn is “No,” which I used to think this was a bad thing. After all, I’m more of a “yes” person. I want to be helpful. I want to be of service. I don’t want to let people down. I learned this in my family of origin. In some ways,...

And God saw Hagar

And God saw Hagar

I did not expect to hear from the women seated in a makeshift tent at Arkoum refugee camp in eastern Chad, 43 miles from the Sudan border. On that 86-degree day last December, we met with several leaders of newly arrived Sudanese refugees. Many of these leaders were...

A priceless gift

A priceless gift

by Stephanie Lape In 1993, my husband and I moved from Southern California where I’d grown up to Berkeley, where I would begin graduate school. I was excited to be on this new adventure with the man who had been my high school sweetheart. We were off on our own, and...

Just prayers

Just prayers

Thank you to those who submitted prayers. You’ll find a variety of prayers for joyous or difficult times, as well as moments when you or others need reassurance. For congregations Gracious and loving God, we thank you for congregations that create sacred spaces where...

Dog days of summer

Dog days of summer

Shu-shu sprawls at my feet. She exudes a jolly, earthy grace. What a happy accident (or is it divine humor?) that “dog” is “god” spelled backwards! This dog keeps me in the now. This wasn’t my idea. She’s a 2020 COVID puppy. Our family had just moved to Albuquerque,...

Domestic abuse resources

Domestic abuse resources

Holiday safety planning tips Create a personal safety plan ELCA Gender-Based Violence study guide for Participants ELCA Gender-Based Violence study guide for Leaders ELCA social message on Child Protection Domestic Violence Awareness Month - National Domestic Violence...

A force of nature

A force of nature

Think for a moment about how society has historically portrayed “Christian women.” I bet certain images spring readily to mind. A demure young woman, head bowed in prayer. A kind, motherly, pulled-together lady in a sweater set or a fabulous hat, depending on one’s...

Call for prayers

Call for prayers

Women of the ELCA is creating a pocket-size prayer book, “Just Prayers,” for use in a variety of situations—joyous times, difficult times, moments when we need/offer reassurance, days when love and justice are needed. We are looking for prayers written with faith that...

Be not afraid!

Be not afraid!

March 25th is the celebration of the Annunciation. On this day, we remember the angel coming to Mary with the words, “Be not afraid.” By most accounts, Mary had many reasons to be afraid. Simply encountering a powerful spiritual being is cause for one to tremble. In...